True test of a gentleman! OK men, this
one is for you. Can you pass the gentleman test? Are you just old fashioned or are you a modern day Prince Charming?
There is a difference between being your father and understanding that
sexual equality means more than working for a woman.
Do you behave yourself, when you have to, or do you come across as
someone who misbehaves at only the best possible times?If your wife, your
co-workers, your children were to be asked if you were someone they
would consider to be a gentleman...would they say "Yes?" Does it
matter? Statistics show that men who have more "gentleman" attributes
get more respect from their peers, receive pay raises at a faster pace
and overall report to have healthier and happier relationships. It
matters. See how you do with the following questions...
- Do I open the doors for all ladies and my peers?
- Do I avoid ever speaking of offensive topics in the presence of ladies?
- Am I careful to never engage in any behavior that could be misconstrued as inappropriate?
- Do I always pay for the meals of those whom I invite to lunch or dinner?
- Do I dress in a way that shows I have respect for myself and others?
- Do I stand when a lady approaches or leaves my table?
- Do I only extend my hand to a lady once she extends her hand first during an introduction?
- Do I refrain from giving physical affection to ladies that I am in a casual relationship with, unless I have their permission?
- Do I help all ladies in my presence with their coats, umbrellas or any other item that they need assistance with?
- Do I refrain from ever borrowing money from a lady?
- Do I keep my Word, always returning items on time and always completing task when I have committed to completing them.
- Do I keep myself clean, always being mindful of my breath, body odor and overall hygiene?
- Am I comfortable with making and keeping eye contact in all my conversation?
- Am I confident, kind and honest?
- Do I have polite table manners? Do I use them at all times?
If
you answered yes to most of these questions, then you my friend are a
great example of a gentleman and I'm sure that you feel the benefits of
being such in your life.
Here is another cute online test for you to give your hand at.
Here is another cute online test for you to give your hand at.
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